一个女人怎样变得自信？

把精力投向自己的女人，才是活得最精彩的女人。A lady who focuses on herself is the best woman.

女孩子三观要正，善良是来自骨子里的，而脸蛋仅能给予视觉上的舒服，不舒适的圈子不要碰，要学着独立。好好生活，好好期待。

The girl's three views should be positive. Kindness comes from the bones. And the face can only give visual comfort. Don't touch the uncomfortable circle. Learn to be independent. Live well. Look forward to it.

如果你想增强自信，有两件事是必要的：

1/相信任何事情都是有可能的；

2/自助才是最好的帮助。

There are two things essential if you want to enhance your Jedi self-confidence:

1/ belief that it is possible

2/ that self-help is the best help

仰望天空时，什么都比你高，你会自卑；俯视大地时，什么都比你低，你会自负；只有放宽视野，把天空和大地尽收眼底，才能在苍穹泛土之间找到你真正的位置，无须自卑，不要自负，坚持自信。

When you look up at the sky, everything is higher than you, you will feel inferior; when you look down at the earth, everything is lower than you, you will be arrogant; only by broadening your horizons and having a panoramic view of the sky and the earth, can you find yourself in the sky and the earth. You don’t need to be inferior or arrogant,just stay confident.

什么是自信？自信不是来自“他们会喜欢我。”自信是：“就算他们不喜欢我，我也会很好。”

What is confidence? Confidence is not They will like me. Confidence is I will be fine if they don't like me.